Today or devices are filled with emails, tweets, facebooks statuses’ and so forth but I remember a time of notes and love letters and sharing thoughts without a third party. I remember a time when secrets were sacred and friendships weren’t so easily broken. Maybe I’m getting old or just old fashioned but in those times people came together as opposed to today, we are growing farther apart. I am one of those people who’s phone and tablet are filled with empty emails and the most updated photos but I long for the day of receiving a letter, any letter that thought out and written with compassion or a genuine friendship that was pressure free. Its a horrible feeling to be surrounded by so many people and feel alone so instead I just wish I could rewind time.
I hear this all the time. Stop dwelling on the past and don’t worry about the future. Those things will take care of itself. Or your main focus should be on the NOW because its less stressful. Is it. Why is it we should focus on the now when we are living in the moment. Why put the past behind us when it shapes the people we become. And why not worry about our future when our lives depend on what will happen tomorrow (which is the future). There isn’t a human being that hasn’t suffered mentally, physically or emotionally in their lifetime and even though we know that worrying about things that sometimes we have no control over affects our well-being we worry anyway. Does worrying make us bad people? Absolutely not. I think it shapes our character and it shows others as well as ourselves that we care about something and that we have a beating heart. The truth is I actually worry more when I try not to focus on the past and the future so either way I’m screwed. The point I’m trying to make is your thoughts are exactly that. YOURS. And we shouldn’t give them up. Stress comes from dwelling on the negative when in fact we have a lot of positive things in our past and the future. So keep your thoughts, all of them. Good or bad. They’re your thoughts and you should use them as you please.